I’m cheating on my husband, but so is he. Before the slut shaming and the “two wrongs don’t make a right” begins, please hear me out.

After 5 years of marriage, I found out my husband was having an affair. I was heartbroken and he asked for forgiveness, so I did. After a few weeks, I find out he was still carrying on with the affair.

I first started suspecting of the affair when he no longer tried pleasing me sexually. Out of sexual and emotional frustration, I began an affair with another man. Now my husband is extremely upset, but I honestly can’t bring myself to care. To be honest it feels great. My husband says he doesn’t want to divorce, but I don’t trust him to actually give our marriage monogamy.

So, I won’t give up my affair.