Hey, I’m a 13-year-old girl and I have been catfishing this other girl online for about two years… It started out on some game with a chat before I started catfishing I met her there.
After time I got Roblox and texted her there and made up other people who were apparently friends with me but don’t exist… One of my made-up characters are dating her now… I feel connected to the characters and they are like another extension of me and I’m madly in love with her, she is bi, so she might accept me, but this has been going on for a while and it’s my whole life.
I lost my brother recently and I just don’t know what to do. I feel bad about it and I want to tell her so bad because I love her so much… I don’t know what to do… Any advice is appreciated, and I understand what I did is wrong and it’s tearing me apart I’m crying as I write this.
gotta apologize for my bad English about what I’m gonna write next since English is not my native language. First, Im so sorry for your lost. I know you don’t meant to hurt her feelings, but try to imagine if you were her, and you’ve being lied for couple years? Would you be happy about that? But to me, it’s not about if you made up a character or not, what matter is if you tell her the truth, expect the choice that you will never wanna meet up with her irl, or you’ll need to find an opportunity to tell her the truth, what’s the worst is maybe she’ll be very pissed up and never talk to you again, but whats best is you’ll never need to pretend yourself to be another person and she also accept you for who you really are. Don’t be scared of the future kid, you’ll find out life is a journey of suffering and growing up afterward. I’ll come to check your comment here every couple days, just pls you need to rmb you are not alone. Be tough.
Okay… I’m going to tell her when she comes online tonight… Thank you so much, your comment is the thing that is giving me the strength to do this.
I’m going to tell her tonight, thank you so much for your comment and the support… I’ll let you know how things turn out, wish me luck…
Hey sorry I didn’t come back for ages, I lost Wi-Fi for a while. It didn’t go very well, she was really mad and blocked me on everything. It’s okay though… now I can move on with my life. I recently made a friend named Maleah, we’re getting along and I’m just being myself now and finally learning what it’s like to be liked as myself. Thank you for your support <3