Me and my wife are been married for 2 years and knew each other for 3 years and we I have a 5 years old step son. I am in the military for 4 years now and this is the first time I got deployed and left my wife and son alone in a new place. The first month went well, and we talked everyday and night. Then she goes to her parents house around December and our marriage went down hill from there.
I started to noticing her actions towards me its kinda different when she got back from her parents house. I found out shes been cheating on me since that day. Is being deployed not hard enough she slept with a few guys. How did I found this out is pretty simple. I played the game of a cop. I started accusing her of cheating of me. I started to monitor our finance every day. When that day comes when she finally admit it to me that all of my accusations was true, and boy I was so devastated… Somewhat I don’t want her to tell me the truth.. She told me this 1 week ago and its still fresh. I am writing this because i don’t know what to do. And I am still in love with her. Our son doesn’t know what’s going on. I am so mad at her for doing this to us for destroying our family.