Being in a relationship is the best feeling ever. Nonetheless, many relationship end because once the person has you, they stop doing wonderful things it took to get you and that hurts like a bullet through the chest.
I’m currently in a relationship for almost 10 months. At first, our relationship was amazing and my boyfriend never fails to keep a smile on my face. Although he is busy, he knows his priorities. He would always find time to call or text me even though with that busy schedule he has.
However, as times goes by, he forget his responsibilities as a boyfriend and priorities as he was filled up with busy schedule. Our relationship started to be at a rocky stage as I felt like I wasn’t receiving enough attention from him and we came to argue more often.
In between, there were even time when he ask for a break in our relationship as he wanted to chill his mind awhile. He doesn’t even think of talking it out and solving things between us.
Nevertheless, I convinced him to stop having the thoughts of taking a break in our relationship and have a talk about it.
Then things worked out fine between us for a few weeks and he promised to spend time with me and know his priorities. But that’s not the end as he is back with those irresponsible behavior and it’s been going on for about 2 months.
I tired so hard talking to him about it but things just doesn’t work out anymore. He only appears as my boyfriend at night for around 2 hours and it back to the same “busy schedule” in the morning.
He doesn’t text or call at all from the morning till night and I would have to wait till night time before he would pay attention to me. I love him so much and it hurts.
It’s been hurting so much till the point I don’t feel anything anymore. I even have nightmares every night. Right now, I’m planning to let go of him. He will be happy and I could live a better life.
I’m letting him go not because I don’t love him but it’s because I love him so much that it hurts to hold onto him. But there’s one problem as these question seem to question me all the time .. ” Will I be fine? ” Will I regret later on if I let go of him? ” ” Am I able to move on without him? ” ” Is this the only way to solve things? “.
I can’t seem to answer and currently looking for the answers …
(It would be great if I could receive some advice from you guys out there to find an answer to the question)
Thank you for reading 😉
– LS
im in the same situation. just let go, youll be way better off. yes youll miss him but itll get better as time passes. if youre really meant to be, hell come back to you and win you back.