Recently I’ve been getting really depressed because I think my life is a total mess. I wish I could have a girlfriend that could always be with me when i’m feeling sad but I don’t! I never had one. I keep thinking about having a girlfriend and me and her doing lots of amazing stuff but it will never happen.
Can anyone please help me? I want to get over this. I’m only 16 years old and I’m a male.
Hi,
Actually Yes I can help you.
There is someone who can always be with you and who will always love you – God.
No human being can ever fill that feeling of longing for love, except God.
We humans are created by God, in the image of God, with a soul, which can
only ever be satisfied by God.
So I would recommend, pray to God every day, even though you may not believe, and put yourself in someone else’s shoes and do something kind for someone in need, He will listen, persist and he will respond and bring you peace.
Anyway, if you want to attract girls, don’t be expecting anything from them, just be kind and gentlemanly, never needy, and they will be calling you, you’ll have them coming after you instead.
i m 18 and the same thing happens to me but i divert my mind by studying or doing some other stuff. i have fewer friends and i dont have any female friend. but the friends i have are my best friends and i always feel secure with them.
Don’t say something like ‘it will never happen’ with 16! 🙂
There is so much chance it will happen, sooner or later.
But until then, you have plenty of other people to share your life with!
If you have a family, at least a few (or one) good friends, you can always share your life with them. Actually, I think even when you will be in a relationship, it is better to share things with multiple people, so that you do not depend on solely one person.
If you feel like sharing your life, your actions, anything that is happening to you, do so!
If you feel secure with other people (family – not necessarily by blood, maybe family by choice). you won’t worry about finding a relationship, and you can be more open to finding one that really is right for you, rather than just any! 🙂
All the best for you!
If you have a family, at least a few (or one) good friends, you can always share your life with them. Actually, I think even when you will be in a relationship, it is better to share things with multiple people, so that you do not depend on solely one person.
If you feel like sharing your life, your actions, anything that is happening to you, do so!
If you feel secure with other people (family – not necessarily by blood, maybe family by choice). you won’t worry about finding a relationship, and you can be more open to finding one that really is right for you, rather than just any! 🙂
All the best for you!
I’ve been in the same spot before. I know a few girls, one of which I’ve been wanting to ask out for a little while but I have no idea whether or not she really likes me and i’m terrified. I don’t have many friends. I kept myself occupied with films and drawing – the two things I love most. I’ve managed to keep myself just above the sinking line and slowly am changing my life and outlooks.