I love my boyfriend very much but I think of ending our 3-year relationship. As much as I love him I feel I should let him go because I don’t have my life figured out and I feel like I hold him back somehow. I think he deserves better then someone like me, that can’t even manage to take control of her own life. Plus, I want him to meet someone that loves and understands him just the way I did. Someone educated that he would enjoy having a conversation with. Someone that supports him mentally while still in school.
This sound more like a self-esteem issue rather than a if you are good enough for someone. If you love and cherish someone then you should continue loving and hang on to it as long as you can without forcing the other to love you back. Chasing someone away that you love and trying to justify is a sign of a selfish person, but I don’t think you are one 🙂 Love is a two way street, one should encourage another to better themself and their partner. Communication and inner happiness within oneself is the key to a happy life.