I am 21 and I have never had a boyfriend, been asked out, or dated anyone. I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting hit on and cold approached by men while I am never hit on by men. In fact, I’ve never had a guy come up to me and ask for my phone number, but I have heard plenty of stories of girls who have had it happen to them out in public. Additionally, I am never approached, cold or not.
I am 5’6 and weigh 125 lbs and I don’t understand why guys just aren’t interested in me. I don’t think I am ugly but sometimes I start doubting my attractiveness. I don’t go to bars or clubs. Once in a blue moon, an older guy might call me beautiful or a guy will check me out that that’s all that happens-nothing further ever happens and this rarely even happens to me. I have tried to put myself out there sometimes by going to some events but I still never seem to attract men. I am getting really sad because I want to find love and I would like to start dating. But I feel so forever alone. ):
First, dating is hard! Second, my sister was 21 when she dated her first boyfriend, so there’s nothing wrong with you or your attractiveness, it just takes time to meet the right person. Please remember, it’s not about your height, weight, or attractiveness – never let other people’s actions (or lack thereof) make you question yourself – if you’re happy with how you look, then that’s what counts! In terms of finding love, I can’t say I’m an expert on that as I’ve really only been in one relationship that lasted 6 years and haven’t found a new one since (it’s been 2 years), but I can say that I’ve had some luck with dating apps, so maybe try giving that a shot. Other than that, just keep investing in yourself and try to have faith that the right person will come along at the right time 🙂