I am in a relationship. I am a man. I am somehow very emotional compared to my woman. I wish if you could be gracious to spare some time.

Most of the time, it’s very rightful to say this that I am very much sensitive in my relationships. I get those common problems such as tiny ones are very much existential in a way it doesn’t need to get removed in the relationships. But what I don’t understand is when we fight over and over the same shit I really tried to settle and yea be it consequential to both of me and my partner, and the shit we fight is really not existential if only we could have settle it both.

I know that some may side to the woman on stuff such as; “Well for her it may not be a big shit anymore”, “You man are just creating the shit again and again”, “You are just trying to get back on what the woman’s mistakes and you want her to be more sorry” etc. Let me say that I don’t care if you side to any of the woman and the man, what I am trying to state is why does the woman get so much sympathy on why they do the shitty shits? Even for myself I sympathized the woman even the man got hurt because of what the woman did and look at the man so pathetically started to get mad and stuff but yet the man still runs to her because basically the woman just doesn’t want to deal with the shits she’s into and started off running away from it saying reasons so whack that the woman just decided to run away from her man? Look at the man so carelessly went after the woman when the man so was so vulnerable when just a single hug from the woman everything is forgotten ………………………………. or temporal forgetfulness (is that a word even? Lol sorry anyway you get my point).

With that said the problem was never solved, right? First the woman just run away first so she could just stop thinking of what she did horrible to her man, second the man just carelessly fall for stupidity and just when he was so vulnerable he ran to the woman. And as days, weeks and months passed they were back to their normal couple behaviour and then again, another shit came and all of a sudden, the shit before came back again and boom misunderstandings from before just added into the pile of misunderstandings in the present. And the cycle just kept on moving again when the woman just ran away from what she did and doesn’t even care to settle it to her man making it even more complicated for the man to understand her but even so the man is so stupid that she still carelessly fall for stupidity over and over again.

With this I as a man would stand mistaken still, because I fed myself a ticking bomb that all I can do is delay the hurt and not cutting the hurt. Wish I had courage to settle things.

Thank you