Dear Josh,

The past year has been so crazy… the off and on between us. We spent the entire summer not speaking, but communication has been gradual since early September. It’s November now, and you told me that you want to be with me. You also said you’re not drinking anymore and that you want a better life for yourself.

Work is good, school is good, and you seem happier. But I can’t help but wonder if you really want to be with me. We’ve spent some time together and it’s been fun, but up until two weeks ago you didn’t seem interested in being in a romantic relationship with me. If my body wasn’t involved, would you still want me?

I’m not sure, but if I had to guess I would say the answer is no. So then why am I going to spend the night at your place tonight? Why do I keep giving myself to you?

– Ms. Naive