Amanda. Angela. Kris. Anna. Fiona. Lucy. Faith. Diane. Vanessa. And at least another 20 have been the women my husband has been unfaithful with. Whether they were physical betrayals (several) or oddly, more painful, emotional/fantasy betrayals, I have found this out, by walking in on my husband of 38 years several months ago in our bed with another woman. Only then to discover, he’d taken her away on holiday over Christmas, lying to me and our 3 children that HE, for health reasons wanted to go to a spa on his own. I maybe construed, a lot of things but, it’s a known fact by many, that I am an authentic, honourable, compassionate, loving woman. I’m also tough, hardworking and believe it or not, I don’t tolerate bullshit! How? in all that is, can this be my life?