Mother of a 16months old and expecting my second one. I started seeing the father of my kids 2010 when we were at the Military Academy, 2012 we moved in together, it was one of the greatest moment of my life. 2014 February I found out I was pregnant, 2 days after I told him he moved out of the house when I was at work. Weeks passed without hearing from him, I heard he was staying with the girl he once cheated with and they have a son. I continue with my pregnancy and gave birth October 2014, took care of my son all by myself, he never assisted with anything since the child was born, not even once. FEB 2015 he came back and apologised and I forgave him because I loved him and I didn’t want my son to grow up without his a father role, we got back together. Late last year he started having an affair with this other chick. Jan I decided to end the relationship because he showered no interest in our relationship anymore. FEB 2016 I found out I was expecting his baby, I informed him, he insisted that I abort. But I don’t believe in abortion. I’m ready to raise my kids by myself. Most of my family and friends are worried that I won’t get someone in life who will accept me with 2 kids if I continue with this pregnancy. I love my 1st born and my unborn baby. The thought of raising 2 kids without financial support gets to me sometimes because he made it very clear that if I don’t abort it will be my responsibility to raise the unborn baby, he doesn’t want anything to do with it.