I have a question? Would you marry a lady if her family insists you perform some traditional rites which might be against your religion although you know it’s not her fault she was born into the family and you truly love her so much?
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I would get her to choose. You or her family. Maybe, you can use their same argument and so you have religious rite that you have to abide by. If you do hers, she does yours.