Never expect, never demand. Never invest too much feelings and effort on something unsure cause in the end you’ll get hurt. Nothings wrong in seeking assurance, nothings wrong in wanting to have a worth, to be important, its just that no matter how much you try life mess it up and you have to start all over again. But because you invest to much you get attach and you’ll be lost and don’t know where and how to build and repair what is damage.