My situation is far worse but actually the same.
My mom loves and defences him but he freaking raped me when my younger brother was looking after his horses he did that to me knowing I can’t stick up for myself.
No one knows about it except me and my mom and one of my uncles!
I want him to die or being shut in the police!
The most creepiest thing that he is an energy vampire as well as my mom!
But my mom is weakest one!